Your wedding day is an extremely special day to you and to those around you like your family and friends. Whether it is your first time, the second time, or even the third time getting married, the excitement that comes with it will never change and will always be the same. Therefore, if you are planning your wedding there could be certain things you should pay attention to make sure that it becomes the most memorable day of your life.
Be honest with your husband, friends, and family. This is the most important thing during the planning of a wedding. You must be absolutely honest to them as well as yourself about what your expectations for the day will be. It is crucial that you make it clear that you have no worries about anything going wrong on your wedding day, but rather try to focus on the fun of it all. Do not be afraid to tell them the little things that might have gone wrong during your wedding. It is a good idea to mention these little issues in order to make sure you are being honest with your guests and vendors as well.
Looking pretty even when you are shy
From choosing your dress and the wedding bands to the venue and finalizing the guest list, there is a lot of work involved. Most of the time you would not even have a lot of time to go over these things. Apart from making sure that you look pretty, you need to also make sure that there is enough food for all the guests, they have places to sit, and that they enjoy your wedding the same way that you do.
It is better to divide the work among you and your family and friends or give the responsibility to a wedding planner to make sure that everything will be carried out effectively. But there could be one thing that could be bothering you and you would not be able to pass on the responsibility to another person. This is to make sure that you look good in your wedding pictures even if you are camera shy and not photogenic.
Being comfortable with the photographer
The good news is that there are certain things you can try to make sure that you look good, if not almost perfect in every picture taken by your photographer. One thing would be to connect and communicate with your photographer and also be comfortable with him.
If you do not feel connected to your photographer there is a high chance for you to feel awkward when he or she is taking pictures and that might cause you to not look the way you want to look in them. You can also speak to your photographer and discuss certain posts that would help him to take good pictures of you. You should always be prepared to take pictures of yourself and make them look good. If you are not comfortable taking pictures yourself then it is a good idea that you have a person who can teach you how to do it.
Importance of a pre-wedding shoot
You can also have a pre-wedding shoot before your wedding day with the same photographer who will be in charge of taking photographs on your wedding day, to get to him or her better and be more comfortable in his presence especially when you are posing for pictures. This will give him or her an understanding of the best poses for you or select the angles from which he can take the shots so that you would look better. You can have a pre-wedding photograph with you to get photographs for your special day as well. If you have been looking for a photograph, which will show your personality in a very stylish and classy way, try having the “pre-wedding pictures” with him or her, which may be online or offline.
Last but not least you can try and just be yourself and enjoy your wedding. Going through with the wedding worrying about how you will soon afterward not help you in any way and will cost you a lot of fun memories you can create with the others around you on that special day. After all, natural pictures depict our natural happiness, and nothing can be better than that isn’t it?